Would you believe that most methods taught on how to improve and build self worth actually contribute to a life crisis?
No wonder improving low self worth is such a problem--it's not your fault!

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Hello, I'm Richard Kuhns B.S.Ch.E. NGH certified

Today I'm truly excited about my opportunity to show you how to build and improve self worth with a specially designed package of CDs or mp3 downloads and bonus e-books. 

Before I tell you about them, let me explain with my own story how most programs to improve self worth actually foster life crisis--then you decide how to build self worth.

 

Many years ago as a young fellow I didn’t have the foggiest clue on how to build self worth--I really needed self esteem help..

Those I looked up to told me to make something of my self. So I did. I graduated from the University of Maryland as a member of Tau Beta Pi honor society and a degree in Chemical Engineering.

Then I got married, bought a house and landed a prestigious job with DuPont as an engineer.  But  do you know what? I accomplished all those goals and was still self conscious with very little that I liked about myself. I had no self worth! I really needed self esteem help.

 

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Rather than question the approach to building self worth, over the next couple of decades I accomplished more and more hoping to feel better about me—didn’t happen--I still had no self worth.  But I did happen to go through two major life crisis during that same time.

Were they connected? You bet your sweet bipee! How I was attempting to improve self worth caused my life crisis's. Let me explain. When I accomplished a goal, the result was that I had something:
Check my dream career
Check my own profitable business
Check a relationship or marriage
Check money in the bank or stock market, and so on.

What little self worth I had was connected to my accomplishments and when I nearly lost my business because I hired the wrong person and he ruined my business, or my wife divorced me, I lost what little I had of myself and each loss became a LIFE CRISIS. 

How about you? Have you been reading articles and books about how to build self worth where they suggest that you set small goals and then gradually set bigger goals to achieve? It probably makes perfect sense and you probably haven’t thought to question that approach no more than I did many years ago. But, this is exactly the approach that sets us up for a LIFE CRISIS a little later on in life!

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Five things you definitely want to know on
how to build self worth.

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Most all programs on how to improve self worth focus on having you:

CheckAcquire skills.
CheckAccomplish achievements.
CheckImprove your physical appearance.
CheckDevelop a talent.
CheckObtain additional education…
CheckWin Friends and Influence People
CheckKnow and Associate with Attractive and Important People
CheckHave Interesting Experiences to Share--Travel round the world, be a trivia wiz, and the like.
 

For instance, there's the story of John.
He was referred to me by his psychologist when he was 26 years old. He went to the psychologist because he had no self worth.

The psychologist suggested that he find a career—he was a high school graduate. Somehow he and the psychologist decided that if he were to become a machinist—something he admired, he'd feel better about himself and have self esteem help.

He was in a catch 22 situation in that he needed to take a course and pass a test in order to get over low self worth. He understood the material but when it came to taking the test, he was all nerves and failed it.

Instead of him feeling better about himself, he felt like a failure. His psychologist sent me to me so he could relax and pass the test.

The psychologist's approach was the typical, "accomplish something, acquire something," and you'll get over low self worth. Yes, it's the approach used nearly 100% of all programs for overcoming low self worth that I've seen. You are supposed to be able to overcome low self worth by getting better at something. 

Unfortunately, this is a "catch 22" approach--a set-up for failure. I'm not saying that everyone who uses this approach fails to accomplish the goal of acquiring a skill or educational level, but this approach is not how build true self worth. It's a set up for failure. Overcoming low self worth with this approach is a myth. 

Look around you. Most of your friends, family, and acquaintances have been building self worth based on their accomplishments and acquisitions. 

 

All of this to feel better about yourself.
And sure, as you achieve these goals you will feel better about you.

BUT, that kind of feeling better is like getting Christmas presents. You feel better, but for how long? A week or so or until the next goal that you think will make you feel even better about you comes along or

God forbid you hit a life crisis.

So, let me ask you, “Did you truly build self worth?”

Not really—you only built a relationship between how you feel about yourself and the things you do and have. And it was a totally dependent relationship and really had nothing to do with self worth.

With my program, guess what? You Don’t Have to Accomplish Any Goals (although you most likely will accomplish many goals.) With my program, should you fall short of any achieving any goal, even though you may be disappointed you can still feel great about yourself.

Or should calamity strike—even as a tsunami—you can handle the terrible loss and avoid losing yourself.

I mean you can still feel great about yourself.

I realized that this is why so many fail at getting self esteem help. What about you? Have your accomplishments, skills, relationships and so on helped you feel better about yourself? Does anything you have really make you feel better about yourself?

It's like you have this 900 pound gorilla on your shoulders. No matter how many great opportunities you have or have accomplished—none of it matters if you feel crummy about yourself.

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Many Programs Emphasize Affirmations to Get a Sense of Self Worth.

So why are affirmations important? Answer: They connect you to SOURCE (health, vitality and prosperity). But, do you know that your brain can easily reject a powerful affirmation that could be great for you?

My program shows you how to Get Beyond Affirmations Being Rejected.

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Goal Setting to Build Self Worth

Yes, many programs use the approach of setting and achieving goals as how to build self worth. While it's OK to have and achieve goals, goals in themselves can be an unrealistic way on how to improve self worth.

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Should you fall short of a particular goal like it with John, your self worth is in jeopardy. While you may have and achieve many goals, your self worth should not be dependent on them for life is more often about dealing with the plans that fall through than it is about making plans.  No goals are necessary to overcome low self worth with my program.

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Many Programs Only Educate the Thinking Conscious Mind.

 The other thing I noticed is that most programs only educate the thinking conscious mind, but the thing they don’t tell you is that this process could take forever.

My program uses powerful cognitive techniques where you become your own best friend and bring the emotional subconscious brain up to date to agree with the new information the thinking conscious brain is receiving.

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Many Programs Utilize the Power of Hypnosis . . .

Back to John:
It was indeed a challenge getting John out of his failure path of having no self worth. More so because the psychologist set him up for failure--the psychologist actually set the path for him to stay stuck with low self worth.

What Happened to John?
Eventually he got his act together but it wasn't by becoming a machinist although he did graduate with flying colors. He learned how to build and improve self worth by learning to deal successfully with life's challenges and to like himself in the face of disappointment.

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What about hypnosis? Does it conjure up images in your mind of a stage show you saw where the participants were clucking like chickens or they participated in some kind of lewd behavior? Hypnosis can certainly be entertaining if that's the goal of the hypnotist.

Overall, hypnosis is great unless the suggestions are aimed at you needing to accomplish goals to feel better about you. Need I say more?

Yes, I utilize relaxation and hypnosis—it’s simply the copy and paste function utilizing powerful suggestions to have you feel great about you even on a bad hair day.


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I personally give you a money back guarantee you that utilizing my program you will:
1. Stop feel badly from comments of others. They will "roll off you like water off a duck's back."
2. Stop putting yourself down.
3. Stop comparing yourself with others.
4. Stop worrying about what you think others think of you.
5. Stop being your own worse enemy and instead become your own best friend.
6. Stop feeling like an outsider who can't get in. You will be attracting friends like magnets attract iron filings .
7. Stop needing to buy clothing, gadgets, tools, and expensive toys to feel better about you.
8. Stop needing to be productive to feel good about you.
9. Stop being self conscious.

How much would it be worth to accomplish this and have a sense of self worth?

A thousand dollars or more?
I bought other programs by noted gurus such as Tony Robbins and Wayne Dwyer costing as much as $600.
You won’t pay $1,000, Not $600, or even $250.


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Just how are you going to be finding self worth the right way?

Let's create a picture of someone who is free of low self worth. As soon as you put this formula to work for you you will feel great about you even on a bad hair day.

Sure you may be unhappy with your appearance at any given time, however, it doesn't make you feel badly about you.

You will be sensitive to the feelings of others and yet be free of letting the feelings of others (even though they may be negative or critical) detract from your self worth.

In the midst of making mistakes just as others make mistakes, it will not detract from your self worth or how you feel about you.  Those no self worth often wallow in the mistakes and feel badly about themselves even to the point of self put-downs or sickness.

Sure, you can feel badly about the mistake and say, "I made a lousy mistake and am unhappy about it," and be free of it affecting how you feel about you.

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How to Build and Improve self worth

I will show you step by step—nothing left to your imagination-- how to improve self worth.

A good place to start is to observe where improvement is required. To overcome low self worth it's important to observe (not criticize) the sources of your role models' self worth. It's important to also observe (not criticize) where your self worth has come from in the past, i.e. what makes you feel good about you and what you need to feel good about you. Thus you'll understand the psychology of self worth and the causes of low self worth.

Affirmations are a great next step. What is an affirmation? Answer: A self statement like, "I am a confident worth while person".

But maybe you've already tried them and nothing happened. Don't fret. The affirmation is only the beginning—your brain is an incredible computer and will create your affirmation as reality. But not if you question it. Like I said, affirmations are a first step. It's like you don't graduate high school with only first grade, but first grade is the foundation at that point of your development for your journey through high school.

How to Self Esteem Help my way connects you to Source—the essence of wealth and prosperity but not as as goal or an outcome, instead as a manifestation of life itself. Let me repeat that:
"You achieve wealth and prosperity as a manifestation of life itself-- connection to source—not from achieving goals or outcomes to make you feel better about you."

Next is to "become your own best friend by learning how to manage your negative self limiting thinking. You can actually take negative self defeating thoughts and make them work for your benefit by acknowledging the negative thoughts and using option statements.

I will show you the most advanced thinking on the planet to become your own best friend. You'll never think of yourself as your own worse enemy again.

How do you handle emotions?
I mean feelings of anger, uncertainty, confusion, frustration...?

Self criticism in the past may have eroded your self worth. But guess what? You can actually use  negative emotional experiences to empower you to move beyond low self worth through your experience of any emotion that life can throw your way.

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Fact is that most of us are emotional cripples and we generally use two crutches—denial and avoidance. We rarely handle them well—especially the negative ones. With my program you throw away your crutches forever.

You learn to acknowledge your disappointments and your emotional reactions. You move through the emotional charge and use directional preference statements.

For instance, you tell yourself that you want to:
learn from the mistake.
see the situation in from a different perspective.
forget about it.
And that even though you may be unhappy, you still like yourself.

This is your formula on how to build self worth on a daily basis as you discover how to like you on bad hair days or even in the midst of a blunder. Many years ago I used to come up with a dozen things that were wrong with me and want to jump off a bridge every time my life fell apart. Today, in the midst of crisis my attitude is, "I'm a fine person, maybe I'm on the wrong planet today."

Let me ask another question. How much do you think your low self worth is costing you in dollars earned per year? Ten thousand, twenty or more? Now how much would this new attitude be worth?

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I guarantee you that you won't be complaining about being bored, or that you were cheated, if anything, you'll be excited and frequently pushing the back button to make notes of the advanced thinking that you'll want to take advantage of every word said. But read on, it's also in book form.

Words can be to you as a scalpel is to a surgeon. This program is leap years ahead of the science and today is "state of the art."

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Yes, this easy to use program on how to improve self worth is in four parts on two CDs.

Part I lays a foundation for suggestions on how to improve self worth. It gives you the easy a,b,c's on how to build self worth. It lays a foundation for the suggestions used in Part II.

Part II is for your subconscious mind. Do not listen to it while driving a vehicle as it may bring on sleep. Part II has suggestions for your subconscious mind for getting rid of low self worth. This side also has subliminal suggestions (suggestions that are below the audible range).

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Part III lays a foundation for being your own best friend, brings your emotional brain up to date, and provides an incredible means of turning disappointments into benefits to profit from disappointments.

In other words, you will learn how to make the best tasting lemonade from the upsets that life sometimesLemon throws at you and feel good about you—keep your self worth--in the process.
This is the Bible, so to speak for dealing with and handling emotions. Emotions are the challenge of the twenty first century.

Part IV , complete with subliminal suggestions, is for nurturing your subconscious mind (bringing it up to date to agree with your conscious mind) as you sleep. This part accelerates the process of self esteem help, being your own best friend, and turning disappointments into benefits.

 
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Wonder what the voice on the CDs sounds like? Click below to sample the voice.

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First the ebook, How to get rid of Self Esteem Blues—a $21.95 value—yours free.

Secondly, The Self Confidence Builder—a $14.95 value—yours free. Everyday unconscious habits such as the Gallows Laugh, Door Man/Woman and so on squash your self confidence. Learn what these unconscious habits are, stop them and walk with a bounce in your step. But that's not all—master the art of assertiveness with nine rules of assertiveness.

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Thirdly there's the “Love Yourself Before Others” e-book—a $14.95 value. It's normal for one to reject portions of the physical, emotional or spiritual self. Imbalance in any one of these three areas keep you from connecting with Source. Integrate your Emotional, Physical, and Spiritual Self to connect with Source, build prosperity and maintain health.

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Then there's the Over Come Life Crisis e-book—a $14.95 value. Life crisis threatens self worth to the nth degree. If you're in the midst of a life crisis, value of life itself can be in question. The key is to move through the crisis, move on, re-identify yourself, and somehow benefit from the experience.

 

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Lastly there's the Reclaim Sexual Self Esteem Report—a $9.95 value.

The report dispels beliefs about needing length and width to satisfy, masturbation guilt, homosexuality, cheating, premarital sex and so on that can question one's self esteem.

 

Over $250 in value for only $49.95. But act today—not because this is a limited time offer.
This offer will be available until my supply of CD programs is exhausted from this marketing campaign which might be a week or perhaps two, but that's not the real issue.

The issue is how many more days do you want to miss knowing the real you?
How many more days do you want to wake up feeling less than?
How many more days do you want the criticisms of others to cut through you like a knife cutting soft butter?
How many more days do you want to be down on you for your plans falling through?
How many more days do you want to be constantly comparing yourself with others?
How many more days do you want to feel like you're your own worse enemy?
How much longer do you want to hide behind thinking that you're too stupid, too uneducated, too fat, too short or tall, or ugly?
How much longer do you want to feel like an outsider who can't get in?
How many more days do you want to shy away from success?
How many more days do you want to be wishing that others really knew you for who you are rather then what you look like or sound like?
How many more crises that cripple your self esteem can you endure?
How many more days do you want to have to be buying new clothes or toys to feel better?

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You can have all of this starting today!

What I'm sharing with you today is powerful but I only have a limited number of programs available so when they are gone I will be taking this offer down so you might want to take some notes.

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So who am I?

As a stress management specialist I've worked with large corporations such as AT&T and International Flavors and Fragrances and thousands of people over the years—home makers, assembly line workers, lawyers, politicians, CEO's and the list goes on.

I have personally helped thousands of people just like you go from little or no self worth to having a healthy self worth and a great self image.  But you want to know the truth about me? Forty years ago, as a college graduate in chemical engineering and honor society member, I had no self worth. There wasn't much that I liked about me.

What I'll be sharing with you, you won't learn in college or some other learning institution. I learned it from the school of “hard knocks.” And the school of hard knocks gives a diploma--it's the number of bruises on your psyche. Most likely  you've already had enough of them and are now ready to take advantage of the course of study on how to improve self worth.  This program is like the copy and paste function of your computer--read on.

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I've spent nearly thirty years discovering the secret on how to build self worth.  But you can take advantage of what I learned in days instead of the thirty plus years it took me. 

Do you know what I ultimately realized? After decades and thousands of dollars on trainings and programs on how to improve self worth—nothing made a difference and then I suddenly realized that there was a Pattern in My Life —I needed to be in a relationship to feel good about me—to feel worthy.

What is your pattern, what do you need in your life to feel good about you?

Do you constantly need to:

CheckBe in a relationship?
CheckHave new clothes or toys?
CheckGet good grades?
CheckMake lots of money?
CheckHave others like you? Parents? Friends? Peers? Work Associates? Fellow students?
CheckGet work done or have achievements--another one to which I can relate?
CheckProve yourself to others?

It was from these experiences of nearly thirty years and counseling hundreds of clients that I came to the revelations which I have to share with you on the process of how to improve self worth.

How did you get to this point

How you feel about yourself?

Your life most likely wasn't always this way.

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Most likely when each of us were born we were the apple of one or both parent's eyes. As infants we could do no wrong. By in large as babies 99% of us were loved by our parents, grandparents, siblings… We were perfect in their eyes.. If those feelings of importance would have continued, none of us would have low self worth issues. When did it all change?

Did it change when we cried at night and awakened our parents too often because of colic? Did it happen when we broke an heir loom accidentally? Was it something of this nature that angered our parents and they realized that we were a pain in the butt? Or did they never waiver in their adoration and we did it to ourselves by comparing ourselves with other children or our siblings?

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I could ask dozens of similar questions. It could have been by simply being asked, “What do you want to be when you grow up?” which indirectly says "You're not much now, but one day by doing something like your older brother (sister) you'll be somebody."

Or maybe we learned from our parents, teachers, friends that "self praise stinks" and to love yourself is an egoistical thing to do.  So we began to play our value down and we ended up believing we have little value.

Of course we observed others too. We saw that when others were successful at something they felt good about themselves--accomplishments breed self worth and failure breeds self contempt.

When we got compliments from others we felt good about ourselves and when we were criticized or even thought someone might criticize us we felt less about ourselves.

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The point is at some point, things changed-either we believed undeserved destructive criticism as one might receive in an alcoholic family, or we came to our own conclusions that we were valueless. We compared ourselves with others and fell short.

Somehow we learned that to feel good about ourselves we had to be accomplished, married or in love with the right person, educated, socially popular, talented, physically attractive… And as long as we could measure up to these qualities or goals, then we could feel good about ourselves. If we fell short, then we felt less of ourselves.

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We even learned that when we're happy we can feel good about ourselves

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and when we're down, depressed, lonely, in despair, angry, frustrated, we can't feel good about ourselves.

Whatever the reason, it's not your fault. It's not your fault. that you were taught incorrectly or didn't have someone with which to ground your ill founded conclusions about life and your worthiness.

How to Improve Self Worth can be a challenge. In my experience of conducting stress management programs and counseling for over 20 years, I found that roughly 99% of those I've worked with felt that they had a low self worth. How could this be?

It's because trying to build self worth using standard techniques such as:
CheckDeveloping new skills.
CheckMaking and influential friends.
CheckGetting a better education.
CheckEarning more money.
CheckGetting a better job.
CheckHaving a handsome or pretty spouse.
CheckLooking physically better.
CheckBeing better at sports or in better physical shape.

It's not only frustrating but accomplishing each is like a full time job —in fact many are full time jobs. You're forced to try to impress others, kiss your boss's you know what, take classes or courses you're not interested in, develop skills you'll never use in life, keep up with the Joneses make more money and sacrifice being with your family and loved ones, have new cars and fashionable clothing and for what?

One day I realized that this is why people fail in finding self worth. Using these techniques to overcome low self worth simply set you up for life crisis and in my twenty years of counseling I've seen many of those and have experienced three of them myself.

Little wonder when we:

Lose skills because of injury;

Lose a close family member on whom we're very dependent to the great beyond;

Lose our financial nest egg because the stock market collapses;

Do poorly in a course of study;

Have a bad hair day; or

Don't live up to our expectations...

We don't feel good about ourselves, our self esteem is challenged, and most likely in the midst of a life crisis.

Ultimately, this may jeopardize our health, emotional well being, set us up for failure mechanisms, constantly be trying to impress others, identity crisis, suicide, chronic depression, and so on. 

After thirty years of this I finally said, Screw this!

I'm done with trying to be important or accomplished or make a ton of money or trying to impress others with what I know or where I've traveled or what they like. I'm done with it! This is exactly why you're gong to love this program--there's absolutely no Bull or Fluff.

If this program is anything other than what I say it is, you have a full 60 day time period to be totally refunded. That's right—a full 60 days and to make sure you feel confident in my offer. You'll receive my  personal email where you can request that refund with “refund request” in the subject line, but most likely you'll be so excited about this material that you'll want to master it yesterday and perhaps even email me for my coaching services to get there yesterday!

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